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Feeling sexually aroused can make people dangerously overconfident when reading a date\u2019s signals, according to a new study.

\nResearchers found that people who were “in the mood” became far more likely to assume romantic interest was being returned, even when their date was giving off uncertain or mixed messages.

\nThe study suggests sexual desire can cloud judgement and create a false sense of optimism during romantic encounters.

\nResearcher Gurit Birnbaum said: “This can help us push past the fear of rejection by tilting perception in a more hopeful direction, but we may not see the interaction as it is.”

\nScientists split male and female participants into two groups before asking them to take part in an online chat with another person.

\nOne group watched a sexually charged video beforehand, while the other viewed a non-sexual clip.

\nAfterwards, participants were asked to rate the chemistry they felt with their chat partner and whether they believed the attraction was mutual.

\nThose who had watched the sexual video were significantly more likely to say they fancied their partner and believed the feeling was reciprocated.

\nResearchers said sexual arousal appeared to create a kind of “tunnel vision”, making people more focused on hopeful signs while overlooking subtle cues of rejection.

\nHowever, participants still recognised obvious disinterest, suggesting desire mainly distorted perception when signals were unclear rather than outright negative.

\nProfessor Birnbaum, of Reichman University in Israel, said: “Sexual arousal distorts perception when the situation leaves room for hope.

\n“They saw interest where there was only uncertainty.”

\nThe findings, published in the journal Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, highlight how emotions and physical desire can shape social interactions in unexpected ways.

\nExperts say the effect may help explain why people sometimes ignore red flags or misread body language during dating.

\nProfessor Birnbaum warned that attraction can sometimes overpower emotional awareness.

\nShe said: “Desire can overshadow sensitivity to another person\u2019s actual wishes.

\n“We may not see the interaction as it is but as we hope it to be \u2014 missing the signs that the door is not actually open.”
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